The Pure Language

We’ve been studying the power of words and this study covers the umbilical myths about praying in tongues. Speaking in tongues is not gibberish, but a pure, heavenly language. When we pray in tongues, we are praying in cooperation with the Holy Spirit.

Acts 2:1 – Now when the Day of Pentecost had fully come, they were all with one accord in one place.

In the Greek – Pente, means five; cost, means to the tenth power; “Pentekoste”; meaning 50 days. It’s 50 days, counting 50 days after the first Sabbath from the first Passover. It’s exactly 50 days after the resurrection of Jesus. So when Scripture says, “The Day of Pentecost had fully come,” it means on the 50th day.

Acts 2:2 – And suddenly there came a sound from heaven, as a rushing mighty wind, and it filled the whole house where they were sitting. (Verse 3) Then there appeared to them divided tongues, as of fire, and one sat upon each of them. (Verse 4) And they were all filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak with other tongues, as the Spirit gave them utterance.

Tongues Is A Language

Speaking in tongues is not gibberish, according to the Bible, it is a language. Acts 2:5, 6 – Now there were dwelling in Jerusalem Jews, devout men, from every nation under heaven. (Verse 6) And when this sound occurred, the multitude came together, and was confused, because everyone heard them speak in his own language.

There are three myths about speaking in tongues: (1) You start speaking fluently the first day. That is not what they did on the Day of Pentecost. The Bible says, “They “heard” them speak in their own language. Big difference! That was the miracle! These people in that upper room had “yielded” their tongues to the Holy Spirit. Isn’t it amazing that the very first thing that He did when He came was change the tongue! And these 120 people had to cooperate with the Holy Spirit.

Think about this: When we first start speaking any language, we don’t start off fluently speaking, we start with one or two words.

So many are afraid to speak in tongues because they are concerned they won’t do it right. Do you think God doesn’t know what you are trying to say from the spirit? Yes, He does. (2) You can’t control it! I’ve heard people say that they are afraid they will go into a trance with no control and they don’t want to do that. Think about the other gifts of the Holy Spirit: Can you control the gift of teaching? Can you control the gift of prophecy? Sure you can, so why would praying in tongues be any different?

Myth: (3) It’s just going to jump out of you one day. People think that because they’ve prayed and nothing happened, one day they will just start speaking in tongues. The people who say and believe these myths have never been taught properly about the gifts of the Spirit and should get understanding before trying to discredit this wonderful gift. 

Speaking In Tongues Is A Language Of The Spirit

1 Corinthians 14:2 – For he who speaks in a tongue does not speak to men but to God, for no one understands him; however, in the spirit, he speaks mysteries.

1 Corinthians 14:14 – For if I pray in a tongue, my spirit prays, but my understanding is unfruitful. (Verse 15) What is the result then? I will pray with the spirit, and I will also pray with the understanding. I will sing with the spirit, and I will also sing with the understanding.

Paul is saying, “If I pray in tongues, my spirit is praying.” Then he says, “So what’s the conclusion? I’ll pray with the spirit, and that would be in tongues, and I’ll pray with my understanding.” Think about this; How many prayers are not being fulfilled because they are praying with just their own understanding? Is it possible that the Holy Spirit has more understanding than us about that particular matter?

How many people only pray “soulish” prayers with their mind, will, and emotions? That’s praying with their own understanding. The Apostle Paul says in 1 Corinthians 14:39, to not forbid anyone to speak in tongues! Do you know how many denominations disobey that verse?

There are churches and leaders that will tell their congregations that speaking in tongues is demonic! If you have been taught that, there might be a stronghold that will keep you from receiving this powerful gift. How in the world did these people ever come to the conclusion that a gift from the Holy Spirit is from the devil? Also, why is there so much controversy over speaking in tongues?

It’s because “Life and death are in the power of the tongue,” and Satan doesn’t want you to know that we can submit our tongue to the Holy Spirit. When we first start, we may not feel anything special, but we are praying in faith, just like everything else we do as a Christian. But if we will continue, we will soon have images of what we are praying about then understanding will come. A break-through will come.

Speaking in tongues is actually part of our “Armor.” Ephesians 6:17 – And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God; (Verse 18) praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit being watchful to this end with all perseverance and supplication for all the saints – 

Jude 20 – But you, beloved, building yourselves up on your most holy faith, praying in the Holy Spirit.

Is it possible that a person that is losing some of their battles is because they are not building themselves up in the Spirit? Are they putting their whole armor on? Are they losing because they are not allowing their spirit to pray?

Genesis 11:1 – Now the whole earth had one language and one speech. So what language was that? I don’t think it was English or Hebrew. Is it possible that it was a heavenly language?

Genesis 11:5 – But the LORD came down to see the city and the tower which the sons of men had built. (Verse 6) And the LORD said, “Indeed the people are one and they all have one language, and this is what they begin to do; now nothing that they propose to do will be withheld from them. (Verse 7) “Come, let Us go down and there confuse their language, that they may not understand one another’s speech.”

Then the Lord confused their language and scattered them. They were trying to build a tower to heaven. Our obvious question when we read this is, “What was so wrong with that?” God said nothing they proposed to do will be withheld from them. In essence, “We better take this language away, because with this language all things are possible!”

So is it possible that when we use our heavenly language, that what we pray for, nothing will be withheld from us? Why? Because we are not praying “soulish” prayers when we pray in tongues, we are praying spiritual prayers.

All the different languages come from the time God changed their language at the Tower of Babel. Now look at what the prophet says about when the Holy Spirit comes:

Zephaniah 3:9 – “For then I will restore to the peoples a pure language, that they may all call on the name of the LORD, to serve Him with one accord.” 

Did you catch that? Zephaniah said “Restore” not give! This is amazing! God said He was going to restore, give back, to the peoples, the very language He took away at the tower of Babel, that nothing that they proposed to do will be withheld from them!

When we pray, the Lord hears our thoughts, so don’t mock those who pray in tongues. It may not be as beautiful as some when they do it, but at least they have the courage to try!

The Lord would not give us this gift of speaking in tongues if it was not beneficial.



Bridling The Tongue

Only God can tame our tongue, but we have the responsibility to bridle it. We have to learn to transform our speech. When the Bible says that the tongue is humanly untameable, does that mean that we don’t have any responsibility? God can divinely tame it, but does that mean that it’s just up to God to tame our mouth without us trying?

James 1:26 – If anyone among you thinks he is religious, and does not bridle his tongue but deceives his own heart, this one’s religion is useless.

If anyone thinks he is serving God but does not bridle his tongue, his service to God is useless. Yes, God can tame the tongue, but what is our responsibility? Our responsibility, according to this verse, is to “Bridle” the tongue.

If I say that the “soul” is humanly “unsaveable,” that means we can’t save our self, only God can. However, we do have a responsibility. We have to respond to the grace of God! We have to turn and repent and believe.

The same goes for the tongue. We have to learn to bridle the tongue and it may take a while, but we still need to do it. There are certain things we can do, to begin with:


James 1:19 – Therefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath;

Most people that get angry quickly, have a hard time listening first and then they can’t control their mouth. If we want to be slow to anger, then we need to be slow to speak. Think before we say something in response to another. We do the opposite of what the Bible tells us to do. We are quick to speak and we don’t listen. The Bible says “swift to hear, listen, and then slow to speak. So we learn to just stop, pause before we say something or we might have to apologize for it later.

Proverbs 21:23 – Whoever guards his mouth and tongue keeps his soul from troubles.

Proverbs 10:19 – In the multitude of words sin is not lacking, but he who restrains his lips is wise.

Proverbs 17:27 – He who has knowledge spares his words, and a man of understanding is of a calm spirit. (Verse 28) Even a fool is counted wise when he holds his peace; when he shuts his lips, he is considered perceptive.

Proverbs 18:13 – He who answers a matter before he hears it, it is folly and shame to him.

How about not finishing another’s sentence for them. Listen before you answer. How about when someone starts telling about an event and another jumps in and has to tell the same thing, by interrupting the other person and then the one who started first, tells the other to just go ahead and finish the story. This is rude, plain and simple!


How many times do we say something and then later think, “I wish I had thought about what I said before I said it.” There are people who think before they speak and people who think while they are speaking and then people who never think until after they have said something. I would love to be the person that takes a moment to ponder and think about what I am about to say. I’m working on that one.

We think in two places. According to the Bible, we think with our mind and we also think in our heart.

Proverbs 23:7 – For as he thinks in his heart, so is he…

Luke 2:19 – But Mary kept all these things and pondered them in her heart. 

Luke 9:47 – And Jesus, perceiving the thought of their heart, took a little child and set him by Him. 

Matthew 9:4 – But Jesus, knowing their thoughts, said, “Why do you think evil in your hearts?”

Matthew 15:19 – “For out of the heart proceed evil thoughts.”

Our hearts can think. There is scientific proof that some that have received a heart transplant, has some of the likes and dislikes of the doner. This is amazing! If we would just learn to pause about what we are about to say, that would give us time to ponder it in our hearts, not just our minds. “Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks.”

The Bible tells us that when we are saved, we get a new heart, so let your converted heart tell the “renewing” mind what to say.


Isaiah 6:1 – In the year that King Uzziah died, I saw the Lord sitting on a throne, high and lifted up, and the train of His robe filled the temple. (Verse 2) Above it stood seraphim; each one had six wings; with two he covered his feet, and with two he flew. (Verse 3) And one cried to another and said: “Holy, holy, holy is the LORD of hosts; the whole earth is full of His glory!”

(Verse 4) And the posts of the door were shaken by the voice of him who cried out, and the house was filled with smoke. (Verse 5) Then I said: “Woe is me, for I am undone! Because I am a man of unclean lips, and I dwell in the midst of a people of unclean lips; for my eyes have seen the King, the LORD of hosts.”

(Verse 6) Then one of the seraphim flew to me, having in his hand a live coal which he had taken with tongs from the altar. (Verse 7) And he touched my mouth with it, and said: “Behold, this has touched your lips; your iniquity is taken away, and your sin is purged.” (Verse 8) Also, I heard the voice of the Lord saying: “Whom shall I send, and who will go for Us?” Then I said, “Here am I! Send me.”

So as Isaiah goes into the temple to worship God, he has a vision. And immediately when he sees a Holy God, he’s convicted about his mouth! Now, why would we not start each day by asking God to help us control our tongue? We ask the Lord for help in all areas of our lives, but how many of us remember to include the mouth?

If you are born again, then you have submitted your life to the Lord Jesus Christ. So why not start every day submitting your tongue to the Holy Spirit and see what a huge difference that will make.



Amazing Facts

The words we speak are releasing life or death in our lives. This study is about amazing facts about words and the tongue.

James 3:1 – My brethren, let not many of you become teachers, knowing that we shall receive a stricter judgment. (Verse 2) For we all stumble in many things. If anyone does not stumble in word, he is a perfect man, able also to bridle the whole body.

Plain and simple: If any person doesn’t stumble in their words, they are perfect! And they are able to “control” their whole body. Here’s what he’s saying, “If you can perfect your tongue, you can perfect your body in actions and deeds. Here are four amazing facts about the tongue.

The Tongue is Disproportionately Powerful

James 3:3 – Indeed, we put bits in horses’ mouths that they may obey us, and we turn their whole body. (Verse 4) Look also at ships: although they are so large and are driven by fierce winds, they are turned by a very small rudder wherever the pilot desires. (Verse 5) Even so, the tongue is a little member and boasts great things. See how great a forest a little fire kindles!

Even though the tongue is very small, it’s effect is very large – disproportionately. He gives several examples: the bit that goes in a horses’ mouth. The bit is a very small piece of metal, placed in the horse’s mouth, that controls the strength and direction of the horses’ body.

Our tongue can control our strength and our direction! People can discover all the areas they are strong in, but if they can’t control their tongue, the strength in these areas will be useless, because we won’t be able to direct our strength!

James 1:26 – If anyone among you thinks he is religious (serving God), and does not bridle his tongue but deceives his own heart, this one’s religion is useless. If any of us are serving God, but we don’t bridle our tongue, our service of God isn’t worth anything.

Then he uses the rudder of a ship for another example. The rudder is small in comparison to the ship or boat, but the rudder turns the whole ship. During a storm, the ship has to be faced in the right direction or it will capsize! The same thing happens to people when they go through a storm because of their tongue! Even in good times, without a storm, if the tongue is not going in the right direction, we could end up capsized on the rocks.

Then James uses a little spark that starts a huge forest fire. The tongue can set off a whole world of events, if not controlled.

The Tongue Is Inherently Evil

James 3:6 – And the tongue is a fie, a world of iniquity. The tongue is so set among our members that it defiles the whole body, and sets fire the course of nature, and it is set on fire by hell. (Verse 8) But no man can tame the tongue. It is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison.

Inherently evil – we were born with an evil tongue. No one has to teach their children to be “rude.” We have to teach them to be polite and kind. The default setting on the tongue is to destroy. Unless we change how we speak, we will do more harm than good.

The Tongue Is Humanly Untamable

James 3:7, 8 – For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and creature of the sea, is tamed and has been tamed by mankind. (Verse 8) But no man can tame the tongue. It is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison.

No human, mankind, person, can tame the tongue. That’s not good news. It is not humanly tameable, but it is “Divinely” tamable! The One who made it can tame it. The One who wrote our owners manual can fix it!

Look what happened when Moses talked to God: Exodus 4:10 – Then Moses said to the LORD, “O my Lord, I am not eloquent, neither before nor since You have spoken to Your servant, but I am slow of speech and slow of tongue.” (Verse 11) So the LORD, said to him, “Who has made man’s mouth? Or who makes the mute, the deaf, the seeing, or the blind? Have not I, the LORD? (Verse 12) “Now, therefore, go, and I will be with your mouth and teach you what you shall say.”

Think about this: When the Father sent the Holy Spirit, the first thing that the Holy Spirit did when He entered those people was “Change their tongues!”

The only way we can change our tongue is to submit our tongue to the Holy Spirit! And isn’t it amazing that so much controversy surrounds this “Gift” of the Holy Spirit? So who do you think brought the controversy? The Bible says, “The tongue is set on fire by hell itself!” Hell wants to occupy our mouth!

Most believers don’t know that Satan cannot hurt us, true believers. What he’s trying to do is to get us to turn our mouth against ourselves and kill ourselves! Every time we speak, we are either agreeing with life and God or death and Satan! That’s why God’s Word says, “Life and death is in the power of the tongue.”

The Tongue Is Contrastingly Productive

James 1:9-12 0 With it we bless God and Father, and with it, we curse men, who have been made in the similitude (likeness) of God. (Verse 10) Out of the same mouth proceed blessings and cursing. My brethren these things ought not be so. (Verse 11) Does a spring send forth fresh water and bitter from the same opening? (Verse 12) Can a fig tree, my brethren, bear olives, or a grapevine bear figs? Thus no spring can yield both salt water and fresh.

The tongue can produce good and bad. Nature can’t even do what the tongue can do. Either fresh water is going to come out of a spring or it’s going to be undrinkable. He’s saying, “Be one or the other.” The tongue can do a lot of damage, but it can also do a lot of good.l The tongue can curse but it also can bless. We can bless our finances; we can bless the marriage; we can bless our business, and we can bless other people with our tongue. The tongue can produce good fruit.

We choose the words we use, choose life!



Ten Deadly Sins

This study is about ten deadly sins that we commit with our mouth. Proverbs 18:21 – Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.

Isaiah 59:1 – Behold, the LORD’S hand is not shortened, that it cannot save; nor His ear heavy, that it cannot hear; (Verse 2) But your iniquities have separated you from God; and your sins have hidden His face from you, so that He will not hear. (Verse 3) For your hands are defiled with blood, and your fingers with iniquity; your lips have spoken lies, your tongue has muttered perversity.

Our sins will affect our closeness and our intimacy with God. Bottom line: It’s because of what we’ve done and what we’ve said.

1) Lying

Lying is a deadly sin. The book of Proverbs has three major themes; our money, our morals, and our mouth. If we’ve ever had a problem in one of these three areas or all, then we go to the book of Proverbs to find out how to deal with it.

Proverbs 6:16 – These six things the LORD hates, yes, seven are an abomination to Him: (Verse 17) A proud look, a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood, (Verse 18) a heart that devises wicked plans, feet that are swift in running to evil, (Verse 19) a false witness who speaks lies, and one who sows discord among brethren.

Three out of seven have to do with the mouth. Proverbs 12:22 – Lying lips are an abomination to the LORD, but those who deal truthfully are His delight.

The word “abomination” is a very strong word for sin and it means “detestable,” and comes from a root word “Idolatry.” When people lie, they leave the throne of truth and go to the throne of lies. Lying is the opposite of God’s nature and it’s detestable to Him.

Some people are habitual liars and that is a stronghold in their life. They have a lying spirit in them. In order to break this stronghold, they have to become “accountable” and “correctable.” And just so you know, exaggeration is lying.

2) Sowing Discord

Proverbs 6:12 – A worthless person, a wicked man, walks with a perverse mouth; (Verse 13) He winks with his eyes, he shuffles his feet, he points with his fingers; (Verse 14) Perversity is in his heart, he devises evil continually, he sows discord. (Verse 15) Therefore his calamity shall come suddenly; suddenly he shall be broken without remedy.

People who sow discord will reap calamity. When a person speaks disharmony and disunity among the brethren, they will reap these two things in their own life.

3) Gossip

Gossip is speaking intimate or private rumors or facts, makes no difference, it was told in private. We think that gossip is just spreading rumors, but even if its a fact if it was told in private, it’s gossip.

Proverbs 20:19 – He who goes about as a talebearer reveals secrets; therefore do not associate with one who flatters with his lips. 

2 Corinthians 12:20 – For I fear lest, when I come, I shall not find you such as I wish, and that I shall be found by you such as you do not wish; lest there be contentions (quarreling), jealousies, outbursts of wrath, selfish ambitions, backbitings, whisperings, conceits, tumults (disorderly behavior); Did you notice what all is committed with the mouth?

Christians like to disguise gossip in the church by saying, “I’m going to tell you something private about someone so that you can pray for them.” If the one telling the secret was praying for the person, there would be no need to tell someone else.

4) Slander

Slander is a false and malicious statement or report about someone. We do this all the time without realizing it. Don’t we pass on reports of someone or an event that we didn’t have actual truth about and was not there to see it? Unless we were directly involved in the conversation, we are reporting hearsay. Look how deadly this is according to Scripture:

Proverbs 140:11 – “Let not a slanderer be established in the earth; let evil hunt the violent man to overthrow him.” Proverbs 10:18 – Whoever spreads slander is a fool.

Paul wrote in Corinthians that people who call themselves a “brethren,” a Christian, and do these things, we are to have nothing to do with them.

1 Corinthians 5:11 – But now I have written to you not to keep company with anyone named a brother who is a fornicator, or covetous, or an idolater, or a reviler (slanderer), or a drunkard, or an extortioner – not even to eat with such a person.

So if we conducted ourselves according to what Paul is saying, we cannot be friends with a fornicator, someone who is sexually immoral, sex outside of marriage. How many Christians do you know that live together and are not married? How many people do you know that call themselves Christians that are always talking about money, are they greedy? How many Christians do you know that are jealous of what other people have? Paul says don’t even take a meal with them. Pretty strong.

5) Tale-bearing

Tale-bearing means revealing secrets or breaking confidence. Proverbs 11:13 – A tale-bearer reveals secrets, but he who is of a faithful spirit conceals a matter. 

The church should be the safest place that someone can tell something about their life. Why? Because of: James 5:16 which says, “Confess your trespasses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed…”

If we can’t trust our sisters and brothers in Christ to keep their mouth shut when we confess something to them, then how are we going to get healed? Here is how this should work: We confess our faults to God that we might be forgiven. We confess our faults one to another that we might be healed. Here’s the major problem though: People don’t like to admit they’ve done anything wrong! If we don’t admit, we can’t receive forgiveness or healing!

When we know something about someone that no one knows but you, it’s power. Character is having power and using it wisely. This is why many believers will never have “power,” because they don’t have the character to use it wisely!

6) Cursing

Romans 3:13, 14 – “Their throat is an open tomb; with their tongues they have practiced deceit”; “The poison of asps is under their lips”; (Verse 14) “Whose mouth is full of cursing and bitterness.”

Someone who curses all the time is usually full of bitterness about something. Here is why we call cursing, “cursing.” When people curse with their mouth, they are placing a “curse” on something or someone. We are to bless not curse.

For instance: The word “damn” comes from the word “damnation.” It means “condemnation,” or eternal damnation. Whey would we ever “damn” someone? Look at this verse in Psalms: Psalm 109:17 – As he loved cursing, so let it come to him; as he did not delight in blessing, so let it be far from him. (Verse 18) As he clothed himself with cursing as with his garment, so let it enter his body like water, and like oil into his bones.

Water and oil don’t mix; cursing and blessing don’t mix either. A person who curses is not blessed. The curses they speak come back on them and blessings are far from them. It is amazing how much people curse and don’t think anything of it. They will curse their business, their marriage, the dog, their car, and so on. And then wonder why things fall apart. Whatever you curse, the curse comes back on you!

7) Blasphemy

Blasphemy means to use God’s name in an unsacred or self-serving way. Exodus 20:7 – “You shall not take the name of the LORD your God in vain, for the LORD will not hold him guiltless who takes His name in vain.”

One way people do this is to use God’s name as a curse word. The other way is to use God’s name in a vain way, “God told me this.” That’s trying to manipulate to get someone to believe that God really told them whatever it is they’re trying to say. That’s using God’s name in a vain way. We call that “Playing the God card!” In the book of Jeremiah, it says, “Don’t say the LORD has said when the LORD has not said!” Don’t use God’s name to get your way. That’s blasphemy and its a sin.

8) Filthy Language

If cursing covers using the word damn and using God’s name in vain and blasphemy, filthy language covers the rest of the bad words people use. Colossians 3:8 0 But now you must also put off all these: anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy language out of your mouth. 

When filthy language comes out of a person’s mouth, it’s because its in their heart. Filthy language stirs up lust. Do you listen to dirty jokes? Same thing. Christians should let others know that they don’t want to hear that garbage.

9) Contentious Speech

Hurtful, hateful, malicious, disagreeable, argumentative or contentious speech. Sounds like what comes out of a bunch of politicians that hate our president, doesn’t it? Disagreeable and argumentative: Proverbs 21:9 – Better to dwell in a corner of a housetop, than in a house shared with a contentious woman. Proverbs 26:21 – As charcoal is to burning coals, and wood to fire, so is a contentious man to kindle strife.

There are people who just love to argue and disagree about everything and don’t care what the subject is. No one wants to be around people like that. I’ve known wives that couldn’t approach their husband s about anything without it starting a fight.

10) Unbelief

Unbelief is a sin we commit with our mouth! If it’s in your heart, it will come out of your mouth. Negative words are words of unbelief. Hebrews 3:12 – Beware, brethren, lest there be in any of you an evil heart of unbelief in departing from the living God’ (Verse 13) but exhort one another daily.

Speak words that build up, not tear down. Some people look at things and don’t see the positive, they only look at what effects themselves. They speak negative words about every situation.

When the 12 spies came back from observing the Promised Land, only two had a positive report, but 10 were full of negative talk. The Bible called that unbelief! This doesn’t mean that we can’t ever say anything negative but use common sense. Some people will take this to the extream by denying reality. Faith is simply stating the truth. What did God say or what does Scripture say about the situation?

Faith is not that you don’t see the mountain in front of you. Faith is that we see the “Mountain Mover!” Our mouth has to line up with God’s Word!



The Truth About Words

Matthew 12:33 – “Either make the tree (your heart) good and its fruit good, or else make the tree bad and its fruit bad; for a tree is known by its fruit. (Then Jesus speaks to the Pharisees.) (Verse 34) “Brood of vipers! How can you being evil, speak good things? For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. (Verse 35) “A good man out of the good treasure of his heart brings forth good things, and an evil man out of the evil treasures brings forth evil things.

(Verse 36) “But I say to you that for every idle word men may speak, they will give account of it in the day of judgment. (Verse 37) “For by your words you will be justified and by your words you will be condemned.”

Yes, we are saved by grace, but if you really believe and are born again, your heart will be changed and your mouth will be changed also. It takes a while and we have to work on what comes out of our mouth.

Words Cost

Does “Freedom of Speech” mean I can say anything I want and not have to give an account to God? Does this freedom of speech mean that we can say anything we want to others, and it not cost us anything including a relationship?

Those of us who live in America, have this right of Freedom of Speech. But for those born into the kingdom of God, we will give account for every idle word. Just because America says its legal, does it make it right? There is a higher law and we are accountable to God.

Psalm 141:3 – Set a guard, O LORD, over my mouth; keep watch over the door of my lips. Psalm 39:1 – I said, “I will guard my ways, lest I sin with my tongue; I will restrain my mouth with a muzzle, while the wicked are before me.”

Have you ever made this statement, “I probably shouldn’t say this, but…” Then we usually, more times than not, say it anyway. It’s either the Holy Spirit or common sense telling us not to say it, but we ignore it.

Words Hurt

Do you know people who say something hurtful and then follow with, “I was only joking!” Proverbs 26:18 – Like a madman who throws firebrands, arrows, and death, (Verse 19) is the man who deceives his neighbor, and says, “I was only joking!”

Have you ever been around someone like that? This is putting little “jabs” in the conversation and then say that they were just kidding. Normally, once we get jabbed we stab back. Many times we give a little jab to someone and there is truth to what we are saying. We cross the line thinking its funny, but it hurts.

According to Jesus, we speak out of the abundance of what is in our heart, so we did mean what we said. Jesus compared words to fruit on trees and trees have roots. So we need to figure out, “What is growing in our life that produced that fruit that just came out of our mouth!

Here is the only way we can deal with bad words, repent! Ask for forgiveness and if bad words have been spoken to you, forgive. If we have bad words, cut the tree down, by figuring out what the root cause is.

Words Last

Here is a big fat lie that a lot of people believe: They believe that they can say something and the words will just “evaporate” into the air. However, James said the tongue can start a forest fire with a little spark. Some people are a “Black Belt” with their tongues. They know exactly where to inflict the punch to cause the most damage. We don’t have to lay a hand on someone in order to cause hurt, people can do it with their mouth.

People have to realize what they are saying and change it as soon as possible or it will only get worse. Bad words last, but good words do too. Words cost, but they can also be an investment. Words can hurt, but they can also heal.

Ask yourself this question: Do my words build someone up, or do they cause harm in tearing someone down?

The Value Of Words

Life Or Death

According to the Bible, the words we speak have the power of life or death!

Proverbs 18:20 – A man’s stomach shall be satisfied from the fruit of his mouth, and from the produce of his lips he shall be filled. (The quality of our life is dependent on the words we speak, to some degree.) (Verse 21) Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruit.

Have you ever really thought that this Scripture was that important? We will determine how our day goes, by what comes out of our mouth.

Everything God created, He created through His words. And we were created in His image. So there is something in our speaking that has a creative force of either life or death in our lives.

This truth from Scripture has been taken to the extreme. Almost every truth in the Bible, Satan tries to distort! As believers we are on a journey exploring “truth.” The truth is already there, it’s in the Word of God. We have been transferred from the kingdom of darkness to the kingdom of light. As we read along in Scripture, we feel like we discover something and this happens with truth when we first see it.

Then when we go to share what we’ve learned, we might begin to exaggerate to really drive the point home. This happens with learning about healing and prosperity also. That’s how the “Name it and Claim it” movement came about. We don’t try to get God to be in agreement with our words, we need to get our words in agreement with God. That is what will make the difference in our quality of life.

What Proverbs 18:21 is saying is, “Do you agree with life, or do you agree with death?” By the words of our mouth, we are releasing life or death.

Words Connect Us To God

Words are how God comes from the spiritual realm where He lives, to the natural realm where we live. Some will say, “God sent Jesus and Jesus is the bridge.” But Jesus is the WORD. John 1:1 – In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. John 1:14 – And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us,… Psalm 107:20 – He sent His word and healed them…

There was a Grand Canyon between us and God called sin, so God sent His Word. God sent His Word to reach us, then we walk across that word of confession of the Lord Jesus Christ to get saved. Romans 10:8 – “The word is near you, in your mouth and in your heart” (that is, the word of faith which we preach); (The Bible will connect the mouth and the heart.) (Verse 9) that if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. (Verse 10) For with the heart one believes unto righteousness, and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. (Verse 13) For “whoever calls on the name of the Lord shall be saved.”

When you believe in your heart and confess it with your mouth, you get saved. What we really believe in our heart, comes out of our mouth. Matthew 12:31 – “Therefore I say to you, every sin and blasphemy will be forgiven men, but the blasphemy against the Spirit will not be forgiven men. (Verse 32) “Anyone who speaks against the Son of Man, it will be forgiven him; but whoever speaks against the Holy Spirit, it will not be forgiven him, either in this age or in the age to come. (Most people stop reading there.) (Verse 33) “Either make the tree good and its fruit good, or else make the tree bad and its fruit bad; for a tree is known by its fruit.

The “tree” is the “heart” and the “fruit” is the mouth. (Verse 34) “Brood of vipers! How can you being evil, speak good things? For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. (Verse 35) “A good man out of the good treasure of his heart brings forth good things, and an evil man out of the evil treasure brings forth evil things. (Verse 36) “But I say to you that for every idle word men may speak, they will give account of it in the day of judgment. (Verse 37) “For by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned.”

Jesus is moving in the power of the Holy Spirit, so the Holy Spirit was moving through Jesus while He was ministering on earth. These Pharisees that were there that day, began to attribute the work of the Holy Spirit to the devil. Jesus turns around and tells them that what they were saying would condemn them and send them to hell. He tells them the reason they are speaking the things they are speaking is, because their heart is evil. If your heart is evil, you will speak evil things.

This is why this can send someone to hell: According to Scripture the only person of the God Head that reveals our need for a Savior is the Holy Spirit! The Holy Spirit reveals our need for Christ. So here is what Jesus is saying: “If you continue to speak evil and harden your heart against the Holy Spirit, when the Holy Spirit comes to you and convicts you, and you harden your heart against Jesus, you are bound for hell! The unpardonable sin is a sin you commit with your “Mouth!”

So many ask if they’ve committed the unpardonable sin, but if you are still drawing air in your lungs, there is hope. Once a person dies, that hope is gone! But Satan tries to convince people that they have committed the unpardonable sin so that they won’t seek God anymore. As long as a person desires to seek God in their heart, there is still hope.

Words Connect Us To Each Other

Anytime we have ever had a “disconnect” with someone, words were involved. Here’s the problem: We don’t have creative power and that’s the error that’s been taught with this truth. Too many believers believe the “Name it and claim it,” and that’s not truth because we don’t create! But our words either agree with God’s plan for our lives or they agree with Satan’s plan. Every word we speak is either releasing life or releasing death.

We either allow God to bless us with our words or we allow Satan to come in with our own words and twist everything.

There are 7 divine words to healing every relationship” “I was wrong, do you forgive me?”

Set Free

Getting set free from bondage is a journey. Freedom involves deliverance and discipleship. You can’t disciple a demon and you can’t cast out the flesh. Many people don’t get deliverance from bondage because they don’t think they can be in bondage if they are a Christian.

However, from the previous studies we know that if we leave a door open in an area, a thief comes in and will steal, kill, and destroy. There are four keys to being set free:

1) Recognize You Need Help

You can read the entire chapter of Luke 15 that is about the lost son, but I am going to start in verse 17: Luke 15:17 – “But when he came to himself, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired servants have bread enough and to spare, and I perish with hunger! This young man was eating what they fed the pigs and he knew that he needed help. He got tired of living that way. There are a lot of people that feel like they have reached the end of all hope, until they come to themselves. The only one’s that will never be set free are the one’s who won’t admit that they have a problem.

2) Repent to God And To Others

Once we recognize that we have a problem, repent to God and to others. However, most people I know who call themselves a Christian, will not admit that they have done anything wrong. Therefore they never repent and they never get delivered.

Luke 15:18 – ‘I will arise and go to my father, and will say to him, “Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you.’

Repentance and confession are not the same thing! Repentance includes confession. This young man “confessed” his sin. But, you can confess your sins and not repent. In other words a person can say, “Yes, I did it,” and yet do it again. So what does true repentance mean?

Repentance comes from two Greek words, one word but made up of two: “Metanoia” means to change; “Noia” means the mind. So repentance means that you change your mind! It’s not that we just change our mind about our sin, it’s that we change our mind about “our-self.” We change our mind about who God created us to be! We also change our mind about God. This is a “process” that Christians continue throughout their life. We renew our minds with the Word of God.

There are people today teaching that once a person gets saved, they don’t ever have to repent again. The reason they teach and believe this is because they think repentance means to, “Just turn from your sin.” That is not what repentance means. It includes that if you are in sin, but what if you are not in sin and just change your mind? The process of changing our mind is a continuing process as we learn the truth from God’s Word. It is not a one time deal!

If repentance just means to turn from sin, then what’s going to stop them from sinning again, unless they change their mind about that sin? As the mind goes, there goes the body – our actions. We not only change our mind about sin, but we repent from sin, and repent to God and to the one’s we sin against.

Matthew 5:23, 24 – “Therefore if you bring your gift to the altar, and there remember that your brother has something against you, (Verse 24) “leave your gift there before the altar, and go your way. First be reconciled to your brother, and then come and offer your gift. Plain and simple: Get right with your brother first and then get right with God. And did you notice that it said, “If your brother has something against you,” not if you have something against your brother?

James 5:16 – Confess your trespasses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. 

Most will have no problem confessing wrong to God, but will not go to their sister or brother in Christ and ask for forgiveness. But James just told us if you want to be set free and healed, we confess to one another!

3) Renounce The Lies Of Satan

Every bondage begins with a lie from Satan. There is a lie that the person believed to start with and continued to believe. However, if a person will stay in God’s Word, the truth will prevail. Read what God says about you and what the Bible tells us who God is and get set free! Renew your mind!

Luke 15:25 – “Now his older son was in the field. And as he came and drew near to the house, he heard music and dancing. (Verse 26) “So he called one of the servants and asked what these things meant. (Verse 27) “And he said to him, ‘Your brother has come, and because he has received him safe and sound, your father has killed the fatted calf.’ (Verse 28) “But he was angry and would not go in. Therefore his father came out and pleaded with him. (Verse 29) “So he answered and said to his father, ‘Lo, these many years I have been serving you; I never transgressed your commandments at any time; and yet you never gave me a young goat, that I might make merry with my friends.

There’s two lies right there: He said, “I never transgressed your commandments at any time.” We know that’s a lie because he was not perfect and Jesus is the only One that is perfect, so at some point in his life he had done something wrong. Lie number 2: He told his father, “You never gave me a goat.” Luke 15:12 – “And the younger of them said to his father, ‘Father, give me the portion of goods that falls to me.’ So he divided to them his livelihood.”

The father divided his livelihood among the two sons, and that included the animals. And the older son got twice as much as the younger son because he was the first-born. The father gave this older son 2/3rd’s of all he had and you know there was a goat in the mix.

Luke 15:31 – “And he said to him, ‘Son, you are always with me, and all that I have is yours.’ “

This older son never left home, but he was still in bondage to bitterness, unforgiveness, resentment, hate, jealousy, and envy. The younger son comes home and he won’t even go into the party because of all these emotions. He was letting his emotions control him.

Do you know that Christians actually get mad at other Christians when God blesses them because they think that Christian doesn’t deserve it. They think because they haven’t done what the other has done, they shouldn’t be blessed at all. Let them suffer a little while longer.

Do you ever get jealous over God blessing another Christian more than you think He is blessing you? This is a lie straight from the devil! God is no respecter of persons. Does it not rain on the just and the unjust? Do not bad things happen to “good Christians?”

Receive The Gifts Of The Father

Luke 15:22 – “But the father said to his servants, ‘Bring out the best robe and put it on him, and put a ring on his hand and sandals on his fee.

The robe represents “Righteousness”: Isaiah 61:10 – He has covered me with the robe of righteousness. If we are going to be set free, we have to receive forgiveness. The ring represents “Authority.” When Pharaoh put Joseph in command, he gave him his ring. The sandals represent “Power.” This gift of power is not something, it is someone! Acts 1:8 – “But you shall receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you; and you shall be witnesses to Me in Jerusalem and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.”

Not in our own authority, but in the authority of the Holy Spirit, we as Christians can bind these principalities that come against us, but we must include confession and repentance! No one has to stay in bondage. Draw close to God and He will draw close to you! You can be set Free indeed!